Day 8 - Celebrate good times but not really

A close friend of mine has a birthday coming up. She has decided to go to the club tonight. Normally, I would love the club, but since my friends all have kids they have basically turned me into hermits, My friends never want to go anywhere or do anything unless it's kid and/or church related. At this point, I haven't been out in a while and can't get excited about it. Especially since this friend is newly pregnant.
I woke up today full of lethargy. Not a good sign when I have any impending engagements to attend. I didn't prep my hair yesterday because I thought I would be fine doing it today. However, I didn't expect to spend the night dreaming about The Narcoleptic and waking up still fatigued and missing him like crazy. So, I had to push past that so that I could get up, eat, then wrangle this hair into some type of order.  Now I'm sitting under the hair dryer wondering if it's worth my efforts. I mean, really? More than likely I'm not going to meet my husband in the club. If my hair is ugly and that turns anyone off, then they're probably not the one for me anyway. The one for me will know that ugly hair is a regular part of my life. Shit, being ugly overall, is a regular part of my life and if that is unacceptable to you, then get lost.

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